Jack Daniels
Sunday 14th August 2011 1:32am [Edited]
730 posts
I'm a sucker for green eyes, an artistic streak, vulnerability combined with the essence of an old soul.
Unintentional heartbreakers each and every one of them.
As for where it comes from, unsure. Idealistically, I'm guessing a person forms a strong opinion about themselves and sets to seek a person they feel compliments the life/identity you've picked for yourself.
Yet realistically, I think each person can assign themselves a mark out of ten based on looks/personality/yada yada yada, then, if they're a 4, or a 6, or a 9 - woo-hoo, then they've earned the right to date the equivalent.
It's usually a case of making the most from who you CAN attract. That's why 99% of couples are matched in looks, status, ideals, etc.
Note: Money and status can compensate/earn points in cases where looks/personality lack.