Charley
Saturday 9th February 2008 11:25pm [Edited]
HERTS
6,842 posts
Hi Little Jimmy Junior.
Sorry to hear that you feel some of us can be cliques.
To be honest I think it is very difficult to be a newbie sometimes. We have all been there. I had some run-ins with peeps when I first started. I felt like I had boarded a ship without a proper pass. However part of the problem was me. I am a gobby & opinionated Bitch. Also part of the problem was that people had already formed relationships so to speak.
I do have favourite writers on here. I am not going to name them. I will always read their stuff if I see it. I also always read a first posters few sketches. I don't always comment. Sometimes because what I wanted to say has already been said. Sometimes because I have nothing to say. Sometimes by time I pop on here they have disappeared down the old line of threads.
You have made me feel quite sad. I think it is imperative that newbies feel 100% welcomed to this forum. I think maybe a re-think l is required.
Maybe for all of us that do put our work on, we should in return critique more others. The time has come for more honest & sensitive advice & more effort to read more critiques.
I forget what it is like to be the newbie sometimes.
Anyhoo, there is a downside to posting your own work. It can get mullered. Rightly so. If it is dreadful we need to know that. It can be disheartening so you need a thick skin. That comes with time. No one will come on here at first & not be affected by that.
Sometimes a sketch doesn’t have to be funny, it can be smiley & still be classed as comedy.
I hope anyway that you continue to post. Trust me, after a while your skin will grow thicker & you will make some friends here & have your fav. writers.
I joined when there was only one other woman I think. That was Zooo & I assumed she was a man. Her pic had a geezer with a hairy face. I assumed it was her/him (F**k I am confusing myself here).
I came on here with my terrible language, filthy mind & my awful grammar.
The grammar has improved a bit but the language has stayed. My sense of humour remains the same yet my ability to write has vastly improved. I am not saying I am the funniest woman that walked the planet. Merely that I know I have got better than I was. Even if that means I have gone from Shite to Not Bad!!!!
If it were not for the BSG I would still just be storing my stuff on the computer for only me to see.
Stay & play with us. You really will appreciate it in the end. I promise.