Quote: James Cotter @ July 31 2009, 1:43 PM BSTI take your point but do you understand the sort of character I am talking about. A person who seemingly doesn't react to someone else's emotions or just smiles at you when your saying your having a nervous breakdown. In many ways a less interfering version of Gordon Brittas who likes to take all things in to consideration. Apart from Brittas and the charters I have already stated is there any others you can think of?
an example of a passive aggressor is when he/she is in the middle of a row with the spouse and then says to her/him....'you need to see a doctor' it is said very calmly.
They are totally cruel/evil with words and said with great calm, therefore enraging more, the recipient. It is in effect mental abuse
