Quote: Timbo @ July 10 2009, 5:11 PM BSTF**k her and not return her calls?
And you were such a gentleman when you arrived on this site...
Just two more places/people I now have to avoid Page 2
Quote: Jacob Loves Comedy @ July 10 2009, 5:02 PM BSTWell he texts me a lot, I was in his area the other day and popped round for a coffee, he started making the odd remark, he said that we should for a drink in town sometime he then said "I have to be careful how I word that or you might think I'm coming on to you" he then said "but I wouldn't say no".
Then he text me later to apologise if he made me feel awkward but said he wanted me to know how he felt.
Is that it? He fancies you a bit? Why avoid him unless you're scared, any more than you'd expect a girl to hide from you if she knew you fancied her?
Just chloroform yourself and get it out of the way, Jacob, because it's going to happen one way or another - these gays cannot be trusted!
Jacob, it's probably best if you lube up before docking.
I think your continued friendship with him will be dependant on whether he gives you a reach around without you asking for it. If he needs prompting, I'd tell the selfish so and so to get stuffed.
Quote: Nigel Kelly @ July 10 2009, 6:04 PM BSTJI'd tell the selfish so and so to get stuffed.
Wouldn't he enjoy that?
Quote: Leevil @ July 10 2009, 6:07 PM BSTWouldn't he enjoy that?
You coud link him this thread?
The best thing to do would be to talk to the guy. If he knew you were straight, while it might be understandable as he has probably been going slowly crazy over this, it was slightly unfair of him to do that to you. Gay guys do get crushes on their straight guy friends but most would never ever dream of trying to act on them because they know it will damage the friendship and nothing will come out of it, so in that sense he was out of line. But at the same time you don't want to imply that you are disgusted or whatever because that will just hurt the guy a lot. Make it clear that you are willing to stay friends but you will not accept anymore attempts like that because you both know that nothing will happen and that you are happy to move on and even give him a bit of space to "recover".
Or just tell him he can suck you off on the occasional basis, but he must never ever touch you the rest of the time, ever. Compromise.
Quote: RubyMae - Glamourous Snowdrop at Large @ July 10 2009, 6:29 PM BSTGay guys do get crushes on their straight guy friends
I'm straight and I've got a crush on a gay guy but I would never tell him, as I don't want to damage our friendship.
Quote: RubyMae - Glamourous Snowdrop at Large @ July 10 2009, 6:29 PM BSTThe best thing to do would be to talk to the guy.
Sorry... Of course it would, that would be the most caring, considerate and productive plan of action. 
Quote: RubyMae - Glamourous Snowdrop at Large @ July 10 2009, 6:29 PM BSTGay guys do get crushes on their straight guy friends
By the way, in saying that, I didn't mean they do that all the time and no one is safe! Sorry, should be clearer!
Quote: Tim Walker @ July 10 2009, 10:44 PM BST
Sorry... Of course it would, that would be the most caring, considerate and productive plan of action.
What is wrong with that? 
Quote: RubyMae - Glamourous Snowdrop at Large @ July 10 2009, 10:57 PM BSTWhat is wrong with that?
Nothing, dear Roo. Just that that is not traditionally the way men (gay or otherwise) tend to resolve things. We tend to just never speak about it again and hope it will go away. Pretend it didn't happen, that sort of thing. 
*worries how to act around Tim*
Quote: Leevil @ July 10 2009, 11:36 PM BST*worries how to act around Tim*
Just act natural, be yourself.