Quote: rwayne @ April 14 2012, 1:35 PM BSTWhat you seem to be deliberately ignoring is that many of these victims have their free will removed.
Of course, people who are as confident, strong and 'together' as yourself wouldn't stay. Not everyone is.
Have their free will removed? With what, a special ray gun?
I've met women who go from one abusive relationship to another - and when I say abusive, I don't always mean physically - and they go out of their way to select a partner who they know is going to cause them trouble.
After listening to some dozy tart going on about how horrible her boyfriend was for the umpteenth time, I asked her flat out why she keeps going out with 'bad boys' and her response was - 'I find normal relationships boring, I want someone who will keep me on my toes and establish boundaries'.
When you are up against that mindset, no amount of laws, interdiction or sympathy will change the pattern of abuse. We all have that little voice in our head that warns us of a threat - but if you ignore that voice because you can only get your sexual relationship thrills by deliberately putting yourself in danger, then there's not much anyone can do to help.
Quote: Matthew Stott @ April 14 2012, 1:40 PM BSTNo, some women, not all.
You are correct, which is why I only give sympathy to some women, not all.