Quote: Nat Wicks @ July 25 2012, 5:27 PM BSTWhy would it amaze you? You just said yourself that gay men hit on men, and not women. A woman can talk to a gay man without fear of an ulterior sexual motive, and a gay man is generally not a sexual threat to a straight woman due to the very nature of hetrosexuality. That this isn't just common sense is bizarre.
Well I get that, but I assume that people are interested in things outside of their direct experience. And male gay sexuality is so rampant and different to female sexuality that I would expect there to be more good old fashioned disgust or at least head-scratching. I've never been able to interest a straight woman in the opportunity of being rimmed by four strangers in a darkened room.
Quote: Harridan @ July 25 2012, 5:28 PM BSTMany (most) women have been sexually harrassed by straight men at some point in their lives, I've been sexually harrassed more times than I can remember.
That was the point I was making. 'It's men that are the problem'.
Quote: Harridan @ July 25 2012, 5:28 PM BSTIf you genuinely can't go into a gym sauna without finding cottaging going on then the gyms need to deal with that.
Actually the gay men need to deal with it. Like stop doing it.