Quote: Nobby9360 @ April 2 2008, 11:21 AM BSTsee? although I may indeed be a bit strange, I can also be quite profound if something tickles me in the right way.
...And capitalising the first letter of each sentence. 
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Oh stop it.
You big silly.
Quote: Nobby9360 @ April 2 2008, 11:21 AM BSTsee? although I may indeed be a bit strange, I can also be quite profound if something tickles me in the right way.
Sorry I'll remove that feather.
I do believe you can have 'real' frienships online. I have 2 or 3 very good friends.
Here's the quandry:
One of these friends is a girl. A woman. A female woman.
I've known her for 4 years or so. I like her. I really, really like her...as more than friends. We've agreed to meet up, but I'm not sure if she means as just friends or more.
You're going to say 'just ask her', I know, but I'm not sure it's appropriate.
What to do?
Just go as friends (or whatever) and see if you can figure out if she wants more during the meeting. Might be easier to figure out in real life than online?
Quote: TopBanana @ December 10 2011, 1:42 PM GMTWhat to do?
Why can't you just meet up and see how it goes? Not sure you'd need to 'just ask' anything. Also not sure in what circumstances you're going to meet; at a pub? On the allotment? Badger baiting?
Quote: zooo @ December 10 2011, 1:46 PM GMTJust go as friends (or whatever) and see if you can figure out if she wants more during the meeting.
This.
I'll do that^^
!What a wally!
I'm dreading the awkwardness. What if she's not the same person in real life? What if I'm not?
:/
Quote: TopBanana @ December 10 2011, 1:42 PM GMTWhat to do?
Get a photo first !
Quote: TopBanana @ December 10 2011, 1:53 PM GMTWhat if she's not the same person in real life?
To be honest, there's bound to be things about her which you hadn't expected, so she will be different. But why's that scary?
And listen to Hancock's Half Hour - The Childhood Sweetheart first !
Dont look at her ears.
Take a condom.
Quote: zooo @ December 10 2011, 2:10 PM GMTDont look at her ears.
Quote: Leevil @ December 10 2011, 2:11 PM GMTTake a condom.
I have seen 100s of photos of her and she's a normal.
I so want to meet her...but I'm a gutless bloke/wimp.