I have been assured that size doesn't matter. The phrase "is it in yet" later on that evening did leave some doubt in my mind as to the factual accuracy of that statement though.
Is 9" good? TBH I've never really known where you are supposed to measure from, and since the incident with the spring back metal tape measure from black and decker I've never really dared try again.
Actually thinking about it girls have it real easy. When girls have to get there first bra or have the first period its like a party atmosphere where the whole family join in. Do boys get mothers standing at the school gates talking to each other in pride that little johhny has soiled his first hanky? No, Gawd I hate such injustices.