T.W.
Wednesday 16th December 2009 8:53pm [Edited]
15,786 posts
As regards the personality of bitter/non-bitter/spiteful/lovely writers on here (or indeed any other forum). This point has been made ad infinitum elsewhere on this site over the years, but I would hope people realise that the nature of this medium (the internet) means that everyone is, to greater or lesser degrees, putting on some sort of "character" when they post. This is not even really a conscious thing to do, it's just the nature of having a debate/conversation with only text as one's means of expression. (Oh, plus emoticons, which are subjective to say the least.)
Whether one posts under one's real name or a pseudonym, as one's comments are there in print, there is a greater awareness of the fact that they will be scruntinised. The subconscious temptation to "spin" one's personality is almost unavoidable. This "acting" is likely to be even more accentuated on a site which is meant (mostly) to be about comedy - the stakes are raised to try and say something relatively amusing/interesting/unusual. This can lead to remarks becoming occasionally more polarised/extreme in order to achieve an effect.
I hope those within the industry have the insight to realise that everyone who posts on an internet message board (be they writers or non-writers, under their own name or anonymously) are usually offering up a skewed version of themselves: in the same way that a stand up comedian on-stage is usually very different off-stage. After all, comedy fans mostly love comedy because it pokes fun at the nasty, mundane and over-serious things in life. If we're guilty of anything it is trying to find something amusing to say, because real life is often far too serious.
I'm more guilty than most of posting something in the past, sitting back and thinking it was pretty funny, without contemplating the implications if not read with the "right eyes". It's a fine balancing act, which I would hope industry people would appreciate. However, I would say that places like the BCG do far more good for British comedy than bad; the occasional times we cause some hurt are regrettable, but a price worth paying I think.
The fact that this thread has garnered over 300 responses suggests that at least we're willing to accept that, as a collective, we might get things wrong.