Quote: EllieJP @ October 29 2009, 11:15 AM BSTEllie is "on a break" with her boyfriend, and very sad.
Oh Ellie. 
Well I hope it works out. 
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Quote: EllieJP @ October 29 2009, 11:21 AM BSTIt's my choice, I need to work out how I feel about us. Sure it will be okay, but he's devastated.
I hope everything works out Ellie, from what you've told me he sounds like a nice guy.
Quote: AndreaLynne @ October 29 2009, 3:12 AM BSTI just realized that I've never got into a real argument with anyone on here...
Quote: AndreaLynne @ October 29 2009, 3:17 AM BSTYes, but I tend to be very opinionated about certain issues and I'm not afraid to speak my mind. It's really weird for me.
So, paedophilia...
Quote: EllieJP @ October 29 2009, 11:21 AM BSTIt's my choice, I need to work out how I feel about us. Sure it will be okay, but he's devastated.
I've never understood this mentality. Why do you need to be "on a break" to work out how you feel?
Quote: Aaron @ October 29 2009, 2:11 PM BSTI've never understood this mentality. Why do you need to be "on a break" to work out how you feel?
Well, time apart can help you to reassess things. It can be more difficult to do that if you're still with the person. Being alone can help you realise you really do want to be with that person; or don't. Obviosuly that might not work for everyone, what with people being different and everything.
Quote: Aaron @ October 29 2009, 2:11 PM BSTI've never understood this mentality. Why do you need to be "on a break" to work out how you feel?
So one of them can keep saying "We were on a break!".
Best of luck Ellie-pops!
Quote: Matthew Stott @ October 29 2009, 2:14 PM BSTWell, time apart can help you to reassess things. It can be more difficult to do that if you're still with the person. Being alone can help you realise you really do want to be with that person; or don't. Obviosuly that might not work for everyone, what with people being different and everything.
Me and my ex have been "on a break" for nearly 8 years. It's all going very well apparently.
Quote: Aaron @ October 29 2009, 2:11 PM BSTI've never understood this mentality. Why do you need to be "on a break" to work out how you feel?
Exactly what Matt said. I don't live with my boyfriend but we spend a lot of time together. When we're together I can't think straight. I need to work out how I'm feeling. We're still ultimately together... it's more a break from seeing each other.
His cock can finally heal!
Quote: EllieJP @ October 29 2009, 2:25 PM BSTExactly what Matt said. I don't live with my boyfriend but we spend a lot of time together. When we're together I can't think straight. I need to work out how I'm feeling. We're still ultimately together... it's more a break from seeing each other.
Awww Ellie hope it all works out
But just in case, How you doing? 
Quote: EllieJP @ October 29 2009, 2:25 PM BSTExactly what Matt said. I don't live with my boyfriend but we spend a lot of time together. When we're together I can't think straight. I need to work out how I'm feeling. We're still ultimately together... it's more a break from seeing each other.
I always felt bad dumping people and dragged it out way longer than I should have, to escape feeling guilty. But make the most of your life Ellie. If he doesn't make you happy there's no point sticking around - you could have your pick of blokes anyway.
Quote: EllieJP @ October 29 2009, 2:25 PM BSTExactly what Matt said. I don't live with my boyfriend but we spend a lot of time together. When we're together I can't think straight. I need to work out how I'm feeling. We're still ultimately together... it's more a break from seeing each other.
Sorry to hear that Ellie.
It's a good idea to think about what you want.
You should probably give those Romance Vampire books a break too. 
Wish you all the best.
I don't like "taking a break" personally as I class it as a dump even though I know it's not.
My rule is love me, love everything about me!
I hope it works out for you Ellie, I really do.
Quote: Leevil @ October 29 2009, 2:27 PM BSTHis cock can finally heal!
Fair enough to Ellie and Matt's points.
Quote: dannyjb1 @ October 29 2009, 2:27 PM BSTBut just in case, How you doing?
Quick Danny! Show her the video of you in the shower!