Gotta go, cop on porch!!!
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Well, I turned the guy down. He's kind of in the same boat as me and it would be an issue with his work. So that's that. Well, good night all. 
Oh well, keep 'em wanting more!
Quote: AndreaLynne @ October 4 2009, 2:32 AM BSTWell, I turned the guy down. He's kind of in the same boat as me and it would be an issue with his work. So that's that.
It ceases to be an issue if both parties are legally separated. A big step, I know, but where there's a will there's a way.
Quote: DaButt @ October 4 2009, 3:20 AM BSTIt ceases to be an issue if both parties are legally separated. A big step, I know, but where there's a will there's a way.
Yeah, that's supposed to be my next step. The husband is trying to woo me back and I have to say that he never tried this hard in the entire time we've been together. The cop is in the middle of a nasty divorce and my mess will most likely get messier, so we agreed to keep in touch on Facebook and meet for coffee one day next week.
So, we shall see...
Quote: AndreaLynne @ October 4 2009, 3:19 PM BSTYeah, that's supposed to be my next step. The husband is trying to woo me back and I have to say that he never tried this hard in the entire time we've been together. The cop is in the middle of a nasty divorce and my mess will most likely get messier, so we agreed to keep in touch on Facebook and meet for coffee one day next week.
So, we shall see...
Good idea. Would be a shame just to let what might be a great thing (you never know) go. Hmm, but I wonder how long it would take your ex to get back to exactly as he was if you took him back?
Did I miss a meeting? When did you split, Andrea?
Quote: Leevil @ October 4 2009, 4:15 PM BSTDid I miss a meeting? When did you split, Andrea?
It's been so gradual that I don't know the exact date or anything. He's still here though. It's like he's a lodger and we're raising the kids together. He's actually spending more time with the kids than he ever did before, which is great for them. He's been hinting at wanting things to be the way they were, to which I replied, "Oh, so you liked the fighting and verbally abusing me and no sex. Hmm, you see, I didn't." He just stood there stunned. Yay for me. He makes a decent roommate, just a shit husband. 
Well, good luck with everything. I think you're allowed to be selfish here. Do what makes you happy. Personally, when my folks split up, as gutting as it was, the marriage wasn't working, so all the horrible negativity in the house was gone. Well mostly, there's still 25 years of resentment lurking lol. Fun times 
He made the gesture of making dinner the other night. I was shocked. But I see that guy cooking dinner and he's still the same guy who has been known to throw things at me and call me nasty names.
Use him and lose him, sister!
That's what I thinking, at least for now.
The question is: When you gonna get it on with Randy?
Quote: Leevil @ October 4 2009, 4:43 PM BSTThe question is: When you gonna get it on with Randy?
Well, that's one way to start it off, yes.