All I'm really saying is, that if a bloke with his top off saw a girl glancing at his chest and started shouting at her and telling her to f**k off and stop staring that would be out of order. And vice versa.
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Quote: Moonstone @ September 22 2009, 7:32 PM BSTI don't think it's fair to make this so one-sided. Many times I have seen women staring wide-eyed at well-proportioned blokes walking round in the summer with their shirts round their waistes. I'm not sure whether they're asking for it or maybe just really hot?
Really?
Well I'm sticking with my opinion on this, even if I risk making myself even more unpopular.
Quote: Dolly Dagger @ September 22 2009, 7:30 PM BSTYeah, but would you look at someone because they had a large nose, one leg, etc?
Yes.
I'd be very subtle about it and not make it obvious, but it really is human nature you just can't help it. I find it hard to believe if I had an extra head ggrowing out of my chest that you'd be able to talk to me without glancing even jjust once. Yes, that's extreme, but it makes the point.
Quote: Dolly Dagger @ September 22 2009, 7:34 PM BSTeven if I risk making myself even more unpopular.
Anyone who dislikes you cos you have an opinion which differs to theirs aint really worth knowing anyway.
Quote: zooo @ September 22 2009, 7:34 PM BSTAll I'm really saying is, that if a bloke with his top off saw a girl glancing at his chest and started shouting at her and telling her to f**k off and stop staring that would be out of order. And vice versa.
But how can it be out of order? I've heard that women who object to being commented or gazed upon in this way as a 'bitch' or 'stuck up' in this thread and it's just playing into stupid men's hands. I never think it's okay for someone to comment on someone's else appearance - for whatever reason, unless it's in a really positive way. And if a bloke can't judge what's positive he's a dickhead.
Mr Dagger has never ogled or commented on women out like this, he's just not the type - many blokes aren't. So why do some insist?
Quote: Moonstone @ September 22 2009, 7:37 PM BSTAnyone who dislikes you cos you have an opinion which differs to theirs aint really worth knowing anyway.
Ezzackly. 
Quote: Moonstone @ September 22 2009, 7:37 PM BSTYes.
I'd be very subtle about it and not make it obvious, but it really is human nature you just can't help it. I find it hard to believe if I had an extra head ggrowing out of my chest that you'd be able to talk to me without glancing even jjust once. Yes, that's extreme, but it makes the point.
I honestly wouldn't. I know enough self-conscious people to know that's pretty hurtful.
Sorry I have am covering old ground I've read bits of this thread but surely looking at a large nose is different from staring at a nice pair of tits. It is arguably pervy but ultimately complimentary. When I was younger I used to get eyed but women quite a lot in I felt a fairly predatory sex obsessed manner. However, as I have become less good looking and this barely ever happens I really miss it.
Quote: Dolly Dagger @ September 22 2009, 7:38 PM BSTBut how can it be out of order? I've heard that women who object to being commented or gazed upon in this way as a 'bitch' or 'stuck up' in this thread and it's just playing into stupid men's hands. I never think it's okay for someone to comment on someone's else appearance - for whatever reason, unless it's in a really positive way. And if a bloke can't judge what's positive he's a dickhead.
Mr Dagger has never ogled or commented on women out like this, he's just not the type - many blokes aren't. So why do some insist?
There are nice ways of saying 'I'd rather you looked at my face now', and making a joke of it, and then there are people who fly off the handle at the merest glance. Not many I'm sure, but some. Those are the type I think are out of order.
Quote: Moonstone @ September 22 2009, 7:37 PM BSTAnyone who dislikes you cos you have an opinion which differs to theirs aint really worth knowing anyway.
There must be another reason then. 
Quote: Ronnie Anderson @ September 22 2009, 7:41 PM BSTSorry I have am covering old ground I've read bits of this thread but surely looking at a large nose is different from staring at a nice pair of tits. It is arguably pervy but ultimately complimentary.
Yeah, like a grown man telling you've got a nice pair of legs when you're 10. 
Why does anyone have to say anything? I just don't get it.... or do people think it's a chat up line? If so how many of them are single... 
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I'm kind of getting lost now 
And I'm back in the room...
Bewbies are secondary SEXUAL characteristics. If say, you're like Chipolata and get turned on by someone with a big nose or a false leg, then yes you would stare.
If you stick a load of naked boobie flesh on display, what does that say about you - either a) you want people to look at and admire your boobie flesh or b) only the top half of your chest gets really, really hot but not the bottom half and you have to wear outfits that allow for the cooling air to get to those regions. Option b) is bullshit, so it's always option a).
The reason people comment is because you are showing them your boobs! Hello?! McFly?! and other sarcastic comments.
Remember that fad a few years ago when chicks where going round with their thongs sticking out the back of their kecks? Remember when women were shocked that men were grabbing the knicker elastic and pinging it? Remember when women used to be able to put 2 and 2 together?
Second rant phase completed. Powering down.
Quote: Renegade Carpark @ September 22 2009, 7:54 PM BSTHello?! McFly?! and other sarcastic comments.
Eh?
Quote: zooo @ September 22 2009, 8:00 PM BSTEh?
It's a Back to the Future reference, which was hip and cool when I were a nipper.
Women get a lot of stick about the way they look all the time, saying it's okay to comment on a woman's breasts because she happens to have the top half of them showing, just makes this worse.
What you're reading about what is says about a woman is wrong.
And the thong thing: did you know it was almost impossible to get any trousers for women that didn't sit on low on the hips? Did you know a lot of knickers, except thongs cause a visible panty line (which would have been commented on). If someone pinged my knickers (and who asks for that to be done?) who I didn't know I would punch them.
Like I said most men don't behave like this, so why do a few claim they can't stop themselves?
Quote: Renegade Carpark @ September 22 2009, 8:02 PM BSTIt's a Back to the Future reference, which was hip and cool when I were a nipper.
Oh you mean because the principal has baldy head like a booby?
Gottit.