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Quote: zooo @ September 22 2009, 2:41 PM BSTWell, I really don't know a reason why a woman would wear a hugely cleavage flashing top other than that they want people to look at their tits.
Because they like it?
Like being looked at? Or like the top? And if so, why do they like the top?
The most persistant, lewd, grabby blokes I've ever encountered are from cultures where the women are extremely covered up. I'm sure that says something but I'm too tired and f**ked to think what. 
Haha, probably right.
Quote: Dolly Dagger @ September 22 2009, 2:43 PM BST
Quote: zooo @ September 22 2009, 2:45 PM BSTLike being looked at? Or like the top? And if so, why do they like the top?
The top. Because it feels nice, it's a nice colour, the neckline is flattering for a short neck, broad shoulders, etc.
Although a minority of women might, we've got to move away from the idea that women dress to get male attention.
A couple of girls I worked with once told me they found it a real turn-on when a guy looks them up and down slowly. I assumed this was some sort of attempt to see if I would do it, but I fixed them firmly in the eye instead.
But I still wonder, is it a turn-on? It seems creepy to me.
I've heard a few people say that when they're from places like Australia - where from the age of about 12 people wear bikinis pretty much every day, men don't see a bikini as a particular turn on, they're just used to seeing so much flesh.
Quote: john lucas 101 @ September 22 2009, 2:43 PM BSTYeah, well played Tim.
It's actually something I do genuinely think. I probably go for the more "tomboy-ish" type of woman anyway. What that says about me, I really wouldn't want to think about.
Flashing the flesh just doesn't do it for me, weirdo that I am. I just feel embarrassed if anything. 
Quote: Nogget @ September 22 2009, 2:48 PM BSTA couple of girls I worked with once told me they found it a real turn-on when a guy looks them up and down slowly. I assumed this was some sort of attempt to see if I would do it, but I fixed them firmly in the eye instead.
But I still wonder, is it a turn-on? It seems creepy to me.
Sounds like they're just a bit desperate for attention!
Why does Beth Ditto strip on stage?
It's knowing that line. For example: I wear stockings (lift your jaws guys!). I actually wear them for a practical reason, not a attraction thing. I hate tights because of the way my body is, the crotch ends up at my knees and they rip too easy and I am not keen on bare legs because I am very VERY pale so if I wear a skirt, I wear stockings.
Despite my reason behind it, I accept the fact that stockings are seen by most people as quite sexual and I'm not gonna get upset with a guy for commenting on the fact I am wearing them which 9 times out of 10 they don't notice anyway unless I fall over or have a malfuction, because I am choosing to wear them instead of tights or barelegs.
However, it doesn't mean I'm up for sex because my reason for wearing them is actually a practical one.
Quote: Dolly Dagger @ September 22 2009, 2:48 PM BSTAlthough a minority of women might, we've got to move away from the idea that women dress to get male attention.
I do agree with that bit.
But, still think tits out = trying to get men to look at said tits. (Even if just specific men, boyfriend etc)
Quote: Nogget @ September 22 2009, 2:48 PM BSTA couple of girls I worked with once told me they found it a real turn-on when a guy looks them up and down slowly. I assumed this was some sort of attempt to see if I would do it, but I fixed them firmly in the eye instead.
But I still wonder, is it a turn-on? It seems creepy to me.
I wouldn't like it personally. I think it depends on the girl. However I wonder if those girls would like it if the guy doing it was a 50 year old fat balding guy?
Quote: Tim Walker @ September 22 2009, 2:49 PM BSTIt's actually I do genuinely think.
Again, well played. 