Once and for all, please help me out, PLEASE.

Ok, very boring I know and to cut a long story short - I dated this girl I really liked who eventually got back with her ex. My last date with this girl was back in November. I know this girl isn't the one for me, but why do I keep thinking about her?

I haven't dated anyone since, I'm not someone who meets girls/women every week and dates them. My main problem is that I keep picturing her and her boyfriend having sex etc. I hate the thought of it, I can't seem to help thinking about it. I'm not having sex with anyone at the moment, is it just jealousy I'm feeling because he gets to shag her and I don't?

I'm sick to death of thinking about her, I haven't seen or heard from her in just over a month, so why can't I just leave her behind? I know I'm jealous, but I just want to stop thinking about them having sex. What is my f'n problem.

Quote: Lord Meldrum @ March 2 2009, 2:19 PM GMT

I haven't dated anyone since, I'm not someone who meets girls/women every week and dates them. My main problem is that I keep picturing her and her boyfriend having sex etc.

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I love thinking about my ex girlfriends having sex with other men. It's a turn on.

Sorry, can't help there.

Are you any relation to Mike Dan-Carter?

Quote: zooo @ March 2 2009, 2:39 PM GMT

Are you any relation to Mike Dan-Carter?

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Can't say I am. Any help would be appreciated.

I guess the only thing to do is find another girl you're interested in. Then your mind will switch to thoughts of her, and that will be enjoyable rather than painful.

Easier said than done I suppose.

Fall for another girl. Didn't Ellie say in a previous thread that the best way to get over one man is get under another? Do something similar, only with a girl.

Quote: chipolata @ March 2 2009, 2:43 PM GMT

Fall for another girl. Didn't Ellie say in a previous thread that the best way to get over one man is get under another? Do something similar, only with a girl.

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Unless I'm on the hunt for a hooker, that's easier said than done.

Someone at work, a friend of a friend?
A girl at Tesco!
No one catch your eye lately?

As it happens Im going out with a very fit girl this Thursday for lunch and possibly the cinema. But she's not interested I don't think, we are just friends. Not sure how I could find out whether she was interested in a bit of a tumble. Any serious ideas?

Quote: Lord Meldrum @ March 2 2009, 2:48 PM GMT

Not sure how I could find out whether she was interested in a bit of a tumble. Any serious ideas?

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On the date say: "Are you interested in a bit of tumble?"

My serious idea is to fall in lust/love with a new girl.

I wasn't saying shag some random!

Oh ok, sorry. But shagging a random would help I reckon as I wouldnt be so jealous of the girl I like shagging someone else because I'd know that I was shagging someone too! I know it sounds a bit childish but I don't think girls/women have any idea how crazy they can make blokes.

Why don't you set yourself a realistic goal like reaching two hundred posts by the weekend?

Quote: Lord Meldrum @ March 2 2009, 2:48 PM GMT

As it happens Im going out with a very fit girl this Thursday for lunch and possibly the cinema. But she's not interested I don't think, we are just friends. Not sure how I could find out whether she was interested in a bit of a tumble. Any serious ideas?

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You seriously don't know??

One way or another, if you want to find out, you'll have to take a bit of initiative.