Quote: Aaron @ February 19 2009, 10:04 PM GMTNo, but you're both women. It's as equally tenuous a link as they one you tried to make.
No not really..... however maybe some one else might enjoy it. 
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Yes, quite really.
Quote: Aaron @ February 19 2009, 10:08 PM GMTYes, quite really.
No there Aaron, I am not the one that claims neediness and thinks those who are not are selfish. Even if you try to use words of trickery.
Needy people marry lots of times and have lots of relationships.
I was actually messing about with that link however, I know 100% fact that I shall not run from relationship to relationship. So, there you have it.
Quote: Dr Mato @ February 19 2009, 10:40 PM GMTI am not the one that thinks those who are not are selfish.
Yes dear. 
Mato, I understand what you're saying about not being toooo needy and wanting to be independent.
But once you've found someone it's okay to need them, right?
Like you need your mum and dad, etc?
Quote: Dr Mato @ February 19 2009, 3:32 PM GMTNo it does not show an overwhelming selfishness. Having to be in a relationship is far more selfish than being okay without.
I think what the Mato was trying to say is that being in a relationship for the sake of it is unfair on the other person. When a couple are not really in love it shows and it can hurt people so it is better to learn to love your own company and enjoy your single time than to hurt someone who may have strong feelings because there isn't a better option.
Also I think Aaron didn't mean he likes being in a relationship for the sake of it, rather he really enjoys the whole intimacy with someone special thing and sharing his feelings with Zooo and when he was single, he missed that stuff.
Tis all good is Ruby Red's hood. That doesn't make much sense but I like saying it.
Yes.
Quote: RubyMae - Glamourous Snowdrop at Large @ February 19 2009, 10:51 PM GMTI think what the Mato was trying to say is that being in a relationship for the sake of it is unfair on the other person. When a couple are not really in love it shows and it can hurt people so it is better to learn to love your own company and enjoy your single time than to hurt someone who may have strong feelings because there isn't a better option.
Yes and no. The divorce rates are high. For some reason people buy in on thoughts that if you are not in a relationship there is something wrong with you. I say, if you need to be in a relationship there is something wrong.
I know people that jump from relationship to relationship. What a total waste of time and heartbreak. A dating relationship will not make you anything different than what you are .........in the end. So to hook up out of need proves to me you need to work on yourself before you move on to the next.
Yes, and it's precisely that opinion which I was using against you. But it is not my opinion. Because in this case, I am not retarded.
I understand what you mean. I too don't have the whole MATE FOR LIFE NOW gene and don't flutter from guy to guy with the sound of church bells in my head. I am a truely old fashioned romantic and enjoy the whole journey rather than the end and if I don't meet someone ever or have 50 mini roos, it's a non issue. What is meant to happen will happen.
Plus I still haven't got the hang of not hiding under a table when a guy talks to me.
Quote: RubyMae - Glamourous Snowdrop at Large @ February 19 2009, 11:16 PM GMT
Plus I still haven't got the hang of not hiding under a table when a guy talks to me.
If you disappear under a table on a date Ruby your man friend is gonna think he's got it made.
Believe it or not, I am really shy and awkward.
I tend to go red and nervous. Nowt classy about me!
Quote: RubyMae - Glamourous Snowdrop at Large @ February 19 2009, 11:23 PM GMTBelieve it or not, I am really shy and awkward.
I tend to go red and nervous. Nowt classy about me!
If you went on a date with me I'd have to insist we wore our avatar costumes. However I'm too old, hairy and beary.
You'd insist I worn a mask and spandex?
Wouldn't we look odd in the queue at KFC?