Quote: Moonstone @ January 23 2009, 9:56 PM GMTYeah that's true
But it's nice you understand. Did you have a bad un at some point too?
Yes. He is now only known as Jerkface. Totally evil scumbag! >_<
I am really nervous about dating anyway cause of my "condition" and it does get in the way a lot!
Quote: Aaron @ January 23 2009, 10:04 PM GMTThat's a point Ian. Does she know about your baggage?
I mean, erm, oi!
Then why the f**k have you arranged a date in the first place?
Because I couldn't say no - you don't understand. And I wanted to, even though I didn't 
Quote: RubyMae - Glamourous Snowdrop at Large @ January 23 2009, 10:10 PM GMTI am really nervous about dating anyway cause of my "condition" and it does get in the way a lot!
They've still not chopped the extra one off? Bloody NHS.
Quote: PhQnix @ January 23 2009, 10:04 PM GMTWorst possible outcome is that you don't have to see her again. A night out may be nice!
Well that's a big part of the trouble - I work with her!
Quote: Aaron @ January 23 2009, 10:11 PM GMTThey've still not chopped the extra one off? Bloody NHS.
Quote: Moonstone @ January 23 2009, 10:11 PM GMTBecause I couldn't say no - you don't understand. And I wanted to, even though I didn't
Why, you cad!
Quote: Aaron @ January 23 2009, 10:12 PM GMTWhy, you cad!
Shit I'm on another planet tonight. I 'meant' to say, I wanted to go even though I didn't, not that I wanted to say no 
Quote: RubyMae - Glamourous Snowdrop at Large @ January 23 2009, 10:10 PM GMTYes. He is now only known as Jerkface. Totally evil scumbag! >_<
I am really nervous about dating anyway cause of my "condition" and it does get in the way a lot!
Awww, maybe then you need someone to remind you that you've got nothing to worry about? I don't know how this thing works.
Quote: Moonstone @ January 23 2009, 10:17 PM GMTAwww, maybe then you need someone to remind you that you've got nothing to worry about? I don't know how this thing works.
Hiiii Ruby!
There you go 
Ruby and Scats, sitting in a tree, S, C, I, S, S, O, R, I, N, G!
I understand because it must be hard to watch someone you care about going through the dark times and knowing there is nothing they can do. I get one of two reactions (also from friends). The first is no understanding whatsoever, excepting it to be nothing and then getting the shock of their lives as time goes on and they see how bad it can get. The second is the complete opposite and I end up feeling as if I'm wrapped in cotton wool and I cannot breathe from all the attention (which as nice and kind as it is, can make it worse). The best thing is to just be "normal" and take everything as it comes. Normality is the most important thing.
Quote: Moonstone @ January 23 2009, 10:21 PM GMTThere you go
Ruby and Scats, sitting in a tree, S, C, I, S, S, O, R, I, N, G!
Rude!
Quote: Scatterbrained Floozy @ January 23 2009, 10:17 PM GMT
Unless you're a lezzer, that's not going to help too much.
I'm not worried. I like my own space anyway!
Quote: RubyMae - Glamourous Snowdrop at Large @ January 23 2009, 10:23 PM GMTI understand because it must be hard to watch someone you care about going through the dark times and knowing there is nothing they can do. I get one of two reactions (also from friends). The first is no understanding whatsoever, excepting it to be nothing and then getting the shock of their lives as time goes on and they see how bad it can get. The second is the complete opposite and I end up feeling as if I'm wrapped in cotton wool and I cannot breathe from all the attention (which as nice and kind as it is, can make it worse). The best thing is to just be "normal" and take everything as it comes. Normality is the most important thing.
I get ya I think, just say nothing type thing? Leave you to sort your own head out?
Rude!
So you get in now then? 
Quote: Aaron @ January 23 2009, 10:24 PM GMTUnless you're a lezzer, that's not going to help too much.
*Waits for Elliot to say I am*
Quote: Scatterbrained Floozy @ January 23 2009, 10:27 PM GMT*Waits for Elliot to say I am*
Is he? 