Mike
You can't leave it like this now, cos everyone wants to know what the real deal is.
Honestly... send either of the texts I suggested and see what happens. If she has a sense of humour at least you will get some kind of response.
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I'd just make a joke about it with her. Clear the air with a gag about how awkward it is between you. Then move on. And there may be things going on at her end you're not aware about, which she might fill you in on if you approach the situation humourously.
Quote: Mike Dan-Carter @ November 19 2008, 1:33 PM GMTI'm 22, she's 20.
*Spits out tea*
sounds to me like she likes you but has decided that she doesn't really fancy you. Now you've been out on a few dates, she's probably feeling a bit awkward too when she'd rather you just stayed friends.
Quote: RubyMae - Glamourous Snowdrop at Large @ November 19 2008, 2:38 PM GMT*Spits out tea*
Why spit out tea?
Quote: Afinkawan @ November 19 2008, 2:39 PM GMTsounds to me like she likes you but has decided that she doesn't really fancy you. Now you've been out on a few dates, she's probably feeling a bit awkward too when she'd rather you just stayed friends.
Ok seriously now: Do I send her a text? Talk to her face to face? Or leave it?
If I text her, what do I say? If I speak to her what do I say?
Serious answers only please 
seriously though, serious answers only please.
I thought you were older! Awww bless! 
Quote: Mike Dan-Carter @ November 19 2008, 2:41 PM GMTWhy spit out tea?
Ok seriously now: Do I send her a text? Talk to her face to face? Or leave it?
If I text her, what do I say? If I speak to her what do I say?
Serious answers only please
Don't text her while you are in the same building. Just a bit of advice. 
I thought you were about 40.
Mike, my serious answer, seriously, is leave it, totally. This whole thing has been tainted by too much anxiety. That will always be there.
And don't go for any of that 'let's just be friends' bullshit, either. That really is pointless.
Forget about it and get on with your life.
Quote: zooo @ November 19 2008, 2:43 PM GMTI thought you were about 40.
No, you're thinking about all the other men who post here!
Quote: zooo @ November 19 2008, 2:43 PM GMTI thought you were about 40.
He is another member of the 80s kids club \O/
Quote: Mike Dan-Carter @ November 19 2008, 2:41 PM GMTWhy spit out tea?
Ok seriously now: Do I send her a text? Talk to her face to face? Or leave it?
If I text her, what do I say? If I speak to her what do I say?
Serious answers only please
Yes absolutely text her. Say something like I suggested.
Or... 'Is the wedding off then? '
Marc! Are you trying to cause trouble you naughty scamp.
I must admit I'm not crazy about the idea of texting her or speaking to her about it. I think me not saying anything says enough, don't you think??
Gently, face to face say you enjoyed going out with her, would she be interested in continuing to go out? Be polite and honest, and hopefully she will be too, then you will know.