Just pointing out that, in case you had in doubts, you had done the right thing.
And well done for doing it.
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Quote: Timbo @ August 27 2008, 8:29 PM BSTIt is all about control. My cousin was a lovely girl, beautiful and gifted, until she met a boy like this. She would have been about your age. The more he put her down, the more her self-confidence went, and the more her self-confidence went, the more dependant she became upon him. After the suicide attempts she required medication; she is not too bad now, so long as she takes it. She is still married to the c**t, and he is still always "just kidding".
But Scatters is a confident and strong young woman who won't put up with shit like that! Otherwise she wouldn't have broken up with him, which was actually quite a brave thing to do, considering his behaviour.
Does it show that I'm a bit proud of her?
It wasn't like he was abusing me! It was just making fun, but I guess I'm uber-sensitive. You'd probably think things silly if I explained them.
Quote: Finck @ August 27 2008, 8:34 PM BSTDoes it show that I'm a bit proud of her?
I wish I was proud of me! 
He sounds a bit like Rex on BB!
I don't watch BB! 
Oh well, that's best, for so many reasons.
Quote: Scatterbrained Floozy @ August 27 2008, 8:37 PM BSTI don't watch BB!
The Human race has a chance at survival.
No, they don't! Only if the race can survive with a bitch as its bulwark.
Quote: Scatterbrained Floozy @ August 27 2008, 8:35 PM BSTI wish I was proud of me!
Now, Scatters. You're a smart girl, as we both know. Just rationalise it: If he wouldn't stop doing something that hurt you after you'd said that it hurt you, there really is no need to evaluate the nature of his comments, because that's not what it was about, was it? How on earth could he expect you to accept his behaviour after you'd told him that it hurt you? I just can't get my head around it.
You've done the grown-up thing, the not easy part. That *is* something to be proud of. I'd have weaseled out of such a situation somehow at your age.
Quote: Scatterbrained Floozy @ August 27 2008, 8:43 PM BSTNo, they don't! Only if the race can survive with a bitch as its bulwark.
Isn't that a Rebellion ship ? Bulwark Battlecruiser
It's just that I will be even less able to cope with things if everyone turns on me. Everyone decided that our relationship was their business too!
Quote: Gavin @ August 27 2008, 8:44 PM BSTIsn't that a Rebellion ship ? Bulwark Battlecruiser
It can be, actually!
Quote: Scatterbrained Floozy @ August 27 2008, 8:43 PM BSTNo, they don't! Only if the race can survive with a bitch as its bulwark.
Sorry that completely went over my head.
Don't worry. Was probably non-sensical anyway!
Quote: Scatterbrained Floozy @ August 27 2008, 8:51 PM BSTDon't worry. Was probably non-sensical anyway!
Non-Sensical sounds space age
It sounds a little like a kind of ice formation to me.