Quote: Aaron @ August 1 2008, 7:33 PM BSTBecause I'm all sickly and unwell.
That is often a side-effect of bumsex.
Give Blood? Page 8
*looks around nervously*
Quote: Aaron @ August 1 2008, 9:07 PM BST*looks around nervously*
*doesn't look around nervously*
*is probably in denial*
Or too sore.
I know this has been asked a million times, and I probably shouldn't be saying this, but it is one of those questions you have to ask at one time in your life like 'why is the sky blue' or 'where do babies come from?'. Ok - you're a gay man, you go on a night out and are lucky enough to pull, how is it decided who is the giver and who is the receiver?
Quote: Simon Stratton @ August 1 2008, 11:30 PM BSTOk - you're a gay man, you go on a night out and are lucky enough to pull, how is it decided who is the giver and who is the receiver?
Dunno, but I've always assumed the act itself was decided by a coin toss.
Heads: Self-explanatory
Tails: Self-explanatory
Surely if you take turns the guy who goes first can say "I've changed my mind" when it's the next guys turn?
Quote: DaButt @ August 1 2008, 11:37 PM BSTDunno, but I've always assumed the act itself was decided by a coin toss.
Heads: Self-explanatory
Tails: Self-explanatory
I guess that would work...
Quote: Simon Stratton @ August 1 2008, 11:30 PM BSTI know this has been asked a million times, and I probably shouldn't be saying this, but it is one of those questions you have to ask at one time in your life like 'why is the sky blue' or 'where do babies come from?'. Ok - you're a gay man, you go on a night out and are lucky enough to pull, how is it decided who is the giver and who is the receiver?
One would ask.
I'd imagine. 
Go with the flow I imagine.
(and I do imagine, a lot.)
Quote: Aaron @ August 1 2008, 7:22 PM BST*weeps quietly in a corner*
Aw, sowwy.
Are you back home all proper now?
Quote: zooo @ August 1 2008, 11:56 PM BSTGo with the flow I imagine.
(and I do imagine, a lot.)
Yeah, but there's got to be a point half-way down the line where things might need to be, er, said.
Quote: zooo @ August 1 2008, 11:56 PM BSTAw, sowwy.
Are you back home all proper now?
Yes. Thankfully!
Quote: Aaron @ August 2 2008, 12:44 AM BSTYeah, but there's got to be a point half-way down the line where things might need to be, er, said.
Maybe it's obvious, or at least implied in a man's demeanour, whether he's going to be a giver or receiver. Lots of gay men seem to think they can 'tell'.
Quote: Aaron @ August 2 2008, 12:44 AM BSTYes. Thankfully!
Hurray! Did Chip miss you?
Quote: zooo @ August 2 2008, 12:47 AM BSTMaybe it's obvious, or at least implied in a man's demeanour, whether he's going to be a giver or receiver. Lots of gay men seem to think they can 'tell'.
The one with the squelchy walk?
iannnnn.
So unromantic.
Quote: ian_w @ August 2 2008, 12:48 AM BSTThe one with the squelchy walk?
I'll send you the bill for cleaning the Guinness off my iMac.
Quote: zooo @ August 2 2008, 12:50 AM BSTiannnnn.
So unromantic.
Sowwy 
The one with the chocolates and the squelchy walk?
Quote: DaButt @ August 2 2008, 12:52 AM BSTI'll send you the bill for cleaning the Guinness off my iMac.
Oops