NateSean
Wednesday 6th August 2014 4:25pm
Salem, Massachusetts
218 posts
It's a classic battle of wits. We naturally admire someone who appears to have a greater command of language, who can use it to effortlessly defeat another person. When we don't admire this is usually when we are trying to prove ourselves to be superior, which is why people start to fling insults at one another when reason and logic start to fail.
I've had numerous cases in real life where social etiquette took a back seat to my need to dominate them for nothing more than my own gratification. For example, there was this woman who came to the shelter where I lived for the community meals. If you made the mistake of breathing in her direction, would talk about herself non stop for a solid hour. She had absolutely no concept of conversation and if you tried to get a word in edgewise, it was like trying to stop the Thames using a dam made of one toothpick and two gumdrops.
Once, I had the misfortune of sitting a the same table as her when she had ensnared someone else in her ceaseless babbling and she was talking about relationships. Her exact words were:
"If someone is going to be in a relationship with me, they have to understand commitment."
To which I replied, "I agree that any one who willingly has a relationship with you should be committed."
Needless to say, I was not very popular at that shelter.